It’s easy to spot the oﬃce narcissist. They make your story about them.
You: I went to Europe on my holidays.
Them: I went to Europe two years ago.
You: I’m going to buy a new car.
Them: I’ve been riding my bike lately. It has saved me so much fuel and I’ve lost 5kg.
They think they are making conversation – others don’t.
Other than the obvious, the problem the narcissist has is that they don’t see they have a problem. They feel they are contributing, making conversation and connecting with others when the opposite is true. For this reason it is very hard for the narcissist to inﬂuence – they just don’t connect.
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