Darren’s Blog
Musings on Mindset, communication, leadership and all the stuff I can think of.
Breaking Free from the Cycle of Habits: A Path to Genuine Success
Dive into the transformative approach of Mindset Mastery and discover how it surpasses traditional habit and discipline-based strategies for personal and professional growth. Learn to achieve genuine success by embracing a more intentional way of living and working.
Cultivating a High-Performance Mindset: The Intersection of Mindfulness and Business
Explore how integrating mindfulness with mindset training can transform business performance. Learn about the benefits of mindful leadership, fostering a growth mindset, and practical steps for incorporating mindfulness into your organisation for enhanced productivity and well-being.
Breaking Free from the Cycle of Habits: A Path to Genuine Success
Uncover the limitations of traditional success strategies and explore how adopting a mastery mindset can offer a more effective path to achieving your goals. Learn the importance of mindfulness and intentional living in personal and professional growth.
The stage actor, the movie star and Zoom
I think a great way to understand how the Zoom experience of the last 2 years has changed business is to look at the differences between the stage actor and the movie star.
THE WORLD HAS CHANGED, HAVE YOU?
We all know the world has changed. Masks, lockdowns and jabs will be a feature of life for many years to come.
And while many of us know this, often our behaviour does not match it.
PRAGMATIC @ WORK – CONTROL IN THE WORKPLACE
I’ve been thinking about control a lot lately – how people react to it, what happens when we don’t have it and how we try to get it back.
WHY ‘WHY’ IS THE WRONG QUESTION, AND WHAT TO ASK INSTEAD
When you ask a question as to why someone thinks a certain way, the answer you get reinforces their position. This makes it harder for you to move forward. This is death in any negotiation.
Take the objection ‘I can’t buy from you.”
DO YOU BELIEVE IN CLIMATE CHANGE?
It’s the wrong question because it’s based on a belief.
Beliefs are hard to change and they can never be wrong. Beliefs are bound up in what we think about ourselves (I’m a rational person), our biases (I don’t have any – I’m fair to all), what we think people like us should think (everyone knows this!).
WHY YOUR INFLUENCE IS MISSING THE MARK (AND HOW YOU CAN FIX IT)
Many sales people go into a sales call with the wrong focus. This incorrect focus happens because it’s easy and is common place. But it hurts sales and causes sales people to offer a discount to win the deal.
THREE INSIGHTS FROM WEST AFRICA AND HOW THEY APPLY AT HOME
Earlier this month I was lucky enough to spend a week in #Abidjan, Cote d’ivoire – West Africa – conducting my Position | Engage | Influence course for @Caterpillar Inc. Being on the other side of the world and in a completely different culture, I was expecting to see something very different.
EXPERIENCE VS PHOTO. OR INVESTMENT VS SAVINGS
Last week I was in the Blue Mountains working with a client from the tech industry. The client had rented a small conference venue complete with open fires, communal living areas and basketball courts. It was a great place to shift behaviours.
DELUSIONAL GRANDIOSITY
Humans have a tendency to have a grandiose opinion of themselves. We like to think that we are better than the rest.
SOCIAL NORMS
There is an old saying that you are the average of the 5 people you hang out with. We are social creatures and we take on the social norms of the group of people we hang around.